People not understanding

I've touched on this before, my daughter and I are living away from home as she gets leukaemia treatment in Townsville. Both her and I talk to social workers a lot but I feel that they don't really understand how a 20 year old feels especially when she is in a cancer ward with no other patients close to her age, and no real understanding how a young girl tries to cope and adjust in a shared ward with unwell men and women mostly over 60.